ReUnited Alas....!

Heyyy! Anybody there? 
Anybody...somebody...
Been so long and feels as though no ones even there :(...

Hands up, my fault...so much has happened since I was here last...Heres my confession. 

The last few months have been rather hectic I must say...rounding up my degree, dissertation, projects,graduation and all the tears and smiles that come with these series of life events!

Oh...By the way I didn't get the first I dreamt about ALLLL MYYY LIFE! But yh that's life ey, I'm happy that I worked very hard to get my 2'1 degree and yh I have been beautifully Engineered (I like to think).

So..I moved out of my flat in Uni a few weeks ago and since then been back home in London, living with the sister. Oh My Word! I feel like a bum living here...Everything is soooooo expensive! I don't go out because I have to buy train tickets, top up my oyster...*sigh* Like it feels like I've just come out of jail where everything is free!  (No...I really did go to the University...silly!)

To be dead honest what has led this random-after-7-months-post is that I have nothing to do. YES. for once in my life I have nothing to do for another 10 days before I move into my new stage of life. 

I have been doing the following since I graduated:
--Updating my CV...it looks pretty now :)
--Building up my Career prospects (still on it...)


Personally:
--Running more, eating healthy (trying)...In terms of eating healthy, boi! this is my weakness...you see how people who know me think I'm quite strong and determined...hmmm please pray for me, I'd literally eat a bowl of fresh lettuce and the next hour I'm indulging on a huge crunchie chocolate bar (I love crunchie). I have a running partner who pushes me each day, thanks babe! ;)

--I recently chopped off my hair...but no one would know because I still have long hair (I bought it baby!) Trying out this natural hair journey thing but trust me I won't go overboarrddd like my dear fellow sistos...you know, the whole mixing curry in your shampoo...using pig oil and virgin alien conditioner all in the name of Nature. 
 **Apologies if that's what you use heheee**
Just want to keep my roots healthy and thought the best way to do this will be the big chop! Not looking like a cross bred orangutan and nearly human. I'm happy I think...lol

--I am moving to Birmingham. Yup. Going on to do my Masters degree in Advanced Chemical Engineering...My passion! (yh right)
This step is more scary than exciting for me because I'm going to be in Nerd-Mode for 12 months...again. But yh the most exciting thing for me is my new apartment! yayyyy!....I'm moving in to my new little flat in 8 days! Can't wait to make it all pretty and all...you know how I get :D

You're there thinking...ermmm is that it?....

I do have fireworks in my life not all physics and math and writing and thinking and scaring my folks by always being indoors. I don't like to talk much about my fun life...I keep that to myself...yh because I have fun ...alone! :D 

It is relative jor leave me!

--Today, marks one year since I met the Man of My Dreams. I am moist, I am soggy, I am soft...my sister nicknamed me ---Yuckity Yuck.  Thanks Seun.

But dude! I cannot help it! How can someone just come into your life and do this to you?! I walk around smiling, every joke is funny, everybody is beautiful, every song has love lyrics, everything means so much to me...like for instance, take my stuff and I will thank you!lol (It didn't make me dumb no lol)

 I love the sound of love.

The best love is that which you do not expect, that which humbles you and makes you think less of yourself. That which makes you develop personally in all areas with that person always there to push you...and pull you back (In my case when I'm going toooo fast). 

I have learnt a lot from my relationship, one important lesson is to relax, take things easy...You're not in a race with anyone else, no matter how much you feel pressured. The London girl lifestyle in me is always running, always moving so fast, never stopping...one minute late will cost you an hour later. Train times, delays, schedules, human traffic everywhere...just automatically makes you a robot with super speedy sensors. (oh garsh, remind me of sensors...hated that project)

I am restless, thanks dad!

Yh...sooo without drifting away too much. Most of the one year has been long distance. Yes, it does work. I used to think people who did long distance relationships were delusional and sad and crazy and lonely.

That was me for a couple months...haha! I was right.

It is the most crazyyy most pathetic thing to go into....but the best part of this is the fulfillment and the happiness and the eagerness to be with this person each and everyday once the distance is over.

I mean, I went once...and he came over like three times to see me...yh he is sweet!

People are like 'oh Tito he is sooo cute bla d bla d bla ...' I know I know I went searching for the finest! lol...The truth is that although we do get attracted by what we see on the outside, what is most precious and most glorious and most priceless is what is on the inside. He has got a heart, a beautiful heart, everything else is just a plus! (Haha funny how that is actually always my response)

You learn to appreciate and love each other for who you are, what you hear, what you learn about them and not just what you see...sort out stuff, fight!!!!!! and kiss and make up without actually kissing and making up! LOL! 

Just want to give a shout out to Skype, Viber, Face time and all social networks that have managed my relationship. At least all the shouting and screaming was via skype not in person.

We are now going to be 20 minutes away from each other as opposed to one flight, 8 hours and thousands of miles away.

So yes, thats been the highlight of me lately...
I will try to blog more often... I am a writer, right?
This post was just to catch up and let you know whats been happening with me...I know you care! 

ONE LAST THING: Nothing I have is truly mine. Be thankful for everything, each and everyday.

Lots of love
Yours
Teetleskittles